Sunday, October 11, 2009

Ex Stress

At the end of my marriage, it got to the point where I was happy with everything in my life--except for my relationship with S.

I left to build a new life for myself and the boys and I am happy--except for when I have to deal with S. It's the same b.s, it never changes with him.

He wants to make me miserable because he is so unhappy. He continues to blame me for his disappointments instead of taking a long look at his life and choices and behavior.

I am so sick of having to feel stressed out, coerced, bullied, controlled and pressured. I hate having every day ruined by his barrage of emails, texts and phone calls.


1 comments:

c said...

It got to the point where I was so stressed every time I opened gmail, because I was afraid of getting another email from my ex. So I set up a filter to automatically forward his emails to my mother and delete them from my inbox! lol
She reads them and then emails me a shorter version: "He says he'll pick up the kids at 3 today." She leaves out all the bullshit. She acts as my "bullshit filter."
Now I don't flinch everytime I load my email box!